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do they really treat other people and submissives man as shit and do not care for their feelings?
Nope. I'm not sure what videos you are watching, but what you're seeing is typically understood as part of the "scene"- you are watching people play out roles that they have adopted because they find them sexy and rewarding.
Sadists and doms/dominatrices do not want to torture the unwilling, but rather to give and extract pleasure from a submissive partner who gets off on the exchange just as much as she does. Does that make sense? If he says his safe word, the play instantly stops, and she transforms from cold-hearted, cruel mistress into a tender, caring partner, quick to assess what's wrong and talk and make it better. When the play is over, the same thing happens.
I suggest you go and watch some Kink.com videos, maybe on the site Meninpain.com, which is wonderful in its inclusion of both a before and after interview. You get to see the mistress and her slave being normal people- kind, sweet, caring, and understand that the roles they assert while sex do not necessarily translate to their nonsexual personalities.
Hope that helps.
In 2009, as the rest of the world turned to the U.S. for political leadership (or at least something like hope), for first time, American domestic movie revenues topped $10 billion. This despite the poor economy and the much-ballyhooed home entertainments sales. As usual, increased profits doesn’t mean the product is improved; instead, it suggests that targeted advertising is now honed to a science, as is the marketing of tie-in materials (games, music, food, gear) and the need for families and young male consumers (the most often targeted group) to spend time in front of large screens with Raisinettes in hand.
As usual, much of the product people paid to see was loud and violent. Some filmmakers were doing something else. Some of them were women, and some of their films found distribution. The following list does not take a particular order.
The best known and most widely available of the films on this list is Kathryn Bigelow’s The Hurt Locker , which is loud and suspenseful and violent, as well as winner of several critics’ association awards. Part stunning action movie, part political critique, the film features affecting performances by Jeremy Renner and Anthony Mackie as two U.S. soldiers who disarm explosive devices in Iraq. The film looks not only at the hurt they endure, collect, and inflict, but also how they come to be men in pain, by definition.
Why do men in pain hold it in up until the last minute, and then seek out help when the damage has been done? Are men naturally predisposed to pain aversion? What would happen if men were to more proactively seek out mental health counseling or therapy before an otherwise manageable problem ended up destroying them?
Men are beings not socialized to seek out resources and social support the way women do. Women can seek out the comfort and support of friends and family, whereas men tend to hide and obscure their pain in private. A lot of this has to do with the stigmatization of what it means to be a man in our culture. Men are taught, from an early age on, that “real men don’t cry”, and to stuff our emotions and shift into mastery or accomplishment mode to overcome adversity and get things done in the world.
The effect is that problems fester and grow, like mushrooms growing in the dark and dampness of a dead tree. Without light, these problems will get larger, be they marriage problems, work-related issues or general mental health issues.
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